As the new year has started, I have reflected on the lessons and realizations of the past 12 months.
One realization that stands out is the undeniable fact that we will all eventually die. While this may seem like a bleak realization, it is an inevitable truth that we must all come to terms with at some point. This year, I have personally experienced the loss of several relatives in the age range of 55-60, as well as being reminded of death through obituary announcements at work and news of the passing of young celebrities. While it can be difficult to accept this reality, it can also bring a sense of clarity and purpose to our lives, reminding us to appreciate the time we have and make the most of it.
I murmur the following words after hearing the news of someone’s death.
That’s it.
Gone.
The End.
Everything and everyone left as and wherever they were!
Realization 2: It is important to remember that work is a means to an end, not an end in itself. We work to earn money in order to meet the needs and desires of ourselves and our families, but it is important to maintain a balance and not allow work to consume us entirely. Employers, driven by the profit motive, often prioritize growth and profit over the well-being and happiness of their employees. This can lead to the exploitation of labor, especially in developing or poor countries where there may be less protection for workers’ rights. It is important to prioritize our own well-being and to make time for the things that bring us joy and fulfillment, rather than becoming caught up in the grind of work.
Realization 3: It is important to recognize the value of the human species as a whole, while also understanding that individual people are not inherently more valuable than others. We are all part of the same human family and deserve to be treated with respect and dignity. However, not all people will treat us well, and it is okay to distance ourselves from those who do not show us respect. It is important to consider the larger concept of humanity in our actions and decisions, rather than being swayed by the negativity of individual people. It can be challenging to be kind and positive in the face of negativity, but it is important to strive for kindness and compassion towards all people, even when it is difficult.
Realization 4: It is our responsibility to protect and preserve the environment for the benefit of future generations. The rapid “development” of human society has had negative impacts on the natural world, and while it may not be possible to completely undo the damage that has been done, we can work towards mitigating the impact of climate change and adopting more eco-friendly ways of living. In the past, I have focused primarily on working for a livelihood, but I have realized the importance of seeking out employment with organizations that have values and objectives that are people and environmentally friendly. I have developed an interest in green and sustainable finance and am actively seeking opportunities to work for such organizations. In addition to seeking out employment that aligns with my values, I also recognize my personal responsibility to do my part in protecting the environment. This can involve simple actions such as reducing my carbon footprint and using eco-friendly products, as well as more concerted efforts such as volunteering for environmental causes. It is important for all of us to recognize the importance of this issue and to take action to make a positive difference.
Realization 5: It is important to love those who love us back. While it may be tempting to believe that one-sided love is still love, it is not natural or healthy to love someone who does not love us in return. People can be very good at manipulating others’ feelings, and it is common for people to take advantage of someone’s love and emotions, even if they do not love them back. This can be especially harmful in relationships such as those between parents and children, siblings, and lovers. In order to protect ourselves, we may decide to stop being available for people who do not truly care for us in return.
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